Just 15898
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What the fuck is with all these guys not getting pussy? True, I put up with it on the VERY rare occassion, but not for long.
I have lived abroad for almost 10 years, so I will be coming from an outside perspective here (perhaps)...but where have all the western MEN gone?
Women withholding sex is usually a control issue, not even a sex issue. When a woman is pleasant and cooperative, and loves you, she will do almost anything to satisfy you.
If she isn't, she has trapped you, tricked you out (eg. pussy for relationship status), gotten selfish, is trying to dominate you, or something else is wrong in your relationship.
I think I know my own personality and the nature of women to the extent that I have some rules in place.
If a woman enters into a relationship with me she has to agree to a "sex on demand" stipulation. This means we are each others fuck toys; and there is no right to refusal.
It's a reverse onus thing.
Now if she refuses, she is in the wrong and sooner, rather than later, I will terminate the relationship. Full stop. And it was all laid out from the beginning.
BUT, then there is the whole "with power comes responsibility" thing. So, for example, if I am just an inconsiderate cunt and am fucking her on the morning of her fathers funeral...we know she we will leave me. Either then or later.
In any case, "sex on demand" is a very black and white rule...and we know when it's been violated. This "waiting around til she's in the mood" stuff is nonsense.
Women will do whatever the fuck they want (as they are moody little things), but become "in the mood" when things are at their breaking point. Then they will give you a taste/the best sex of your life; and then REPEAT the shitty little cycle of . And on you go...
Also, if my woman is holding out, I will deadline her. I will literally tell her, "I'm in need and you've been putting me off for X reason, but I've had enough. If you don't fuck me good by 5pm Friday I will go fuck a whore..."
If it sounds extreme...that is great. I think it is extreme that a woman pulls me into a relationship under the understanding that she will sex me up good...and then fucks me off. As far as I'm concerned she broke the agreement first.
And if it hits that deadline I will do it. If the relationship fails...it would have anyways. Or I consider it a failed relationship because I am being dominated...and i will suck up the pain and be done with it.
Just as likely, even if you go bang your whore, she will accept it. And not make the same mistake again. If she doesn't accept it, then time to move on.
Western men have been so severely beaten down; and it is beyond logic. I'm sure there are some fantastic and fit looking guys here. But as tough as their bodies are I think they need to develop some mental toughness.
Most women think they are giving you a great deal when they offer/agree to be your girlfriend. They think that you are "+1' (i.e. with them being the "1").
In fact, I explain to women that if I am to be with them I will be "-4/5"; because that is how many women I will lose (dating-wise) from being with only them. So I have very high expectations...
Now some men will say, "well I have kids; it's not so simple". Well, it is, but perhaps that's for another post...
Alan
can I respectfully say that your attitude is the reason moody women become Lorena Bobbitts?
Please stay abroad... Every word pouring from your mouth would quickly ensure every western woman with a backbone would turn and walk away regardless of whether or not you are decent sex material. Your personality leaves alot to be desired.
Thank goodness I have I already found as close to perfection as I can get with the man in my life. He is a happy camper and not at all whipped or "beaten down".
I would like to be in the same room with you and the guys on this forum when you ask in person "where all the MEN are"? I am sure you would find out...
As for anyone having problems with their significant other, HONEST communication without insults goes a long way. Sometimes though, you have to consider that the relationship may have already gone full circle. People change their attitudes and bucket lists as they get older. The person I was with in my 20's, I could not be with now. We grew in entirely different directions. That is not a bad thing. You break up. You go through a healing process, and you may find that the best thing in life is being single, or (in my case) just around the next corner (Thank Goodness for Matt W).