How do you guys get your wife to be ok with gear??

I started out with going back to the gym to rehab my shoulder. Things kinda just went from there. I was looking better and this made me feel better. I was getting compliments from people and that made her look good too ( being with an attractive mate makes you more attractive).

I told her I want to have a better body for self esteem reasons. The problem I am running into now is that I am "too big" and she doesn't want me to get any bigger. My arms are only 17" so I know I am not that big really.

What I am getting at is even when you do figure out a way that you two can agree, you are going to have a different end game in mind. You may want to use for years where she thinks once or twice.

Whatever happens just know your a good person for caring about your old lady's feeling and not just doing what you want. Through that kind of action you two will reach a comprimise, it will just take time.
 
I just asked her what she thought then answered all her questions. She wants to help pin this next go round. She'd rather know than not.
 
What ever you do don't hide it from her she will find out.Women have a 6 sense when their hubby is doing something.Especially when they walk in on you.
 
Get netflix and have her watch " bigger faster stronger" education is the best step in getting her to understanding. It's what helped me
 
Peoples perception of gear and it's use is , Roid Rage, your dick will shrink, and jersey shore!!!!!

What would you think if you didn't know better. I was amazed the first cycle I ran, felt great, was relaxed, got big. Still didn't know anything about it but I knew most of what I heard was bs. Some women will never agree to it and will consider it a drug period. There is plenty of testosterone replacement therapy (TRT) info out there showing the health benefits of test and clearing up many myths.

All of our women will be happy when they see the changes you make but we also have to respect their wishes especially if married or living together. If your wife began taking a drug that made her look good but there was a lot of misinformation and you heard a lot of negatives I'm sure we would be saying no I dont want you using that.

One thing is hypersexuality associated with test. It's just an increase in libido and the majority of us take it out on the wife and lifes great but I'm sure there are just as many guys here who have this new and improved libido and are out knocking the bottom out of every chick they come across.

How many of us would be really excited if our women began taking something that would make her super horny,mine already is luckily, but honestly im sure as men we would be happy but I'm sure there are some who would be concerned that wifey would be handing out your piece of ass to the guys in the neighborhood or at work etc.

There is two sides to it but it's best to be honest. I would want my women hiding drug use, then I would really think it's an issue. One lie leads to another and pretty soon you go from a happy could to lying and cheating.

Yes I'm being extreme just to make a point that you are better off discussing it and educating. I know my girl did not like it. I explained and educated but it didn't change too much and as much as she loves the results she doesn't see the point and I can't blame her but she knows how I feel as well and that I am going to use. We are partners, she's not my mother, but out of respect I let her know my intent. I'm a grown man and made my choices and we just learned to kinda deal with it but still no approval.
 
Just tell her the truth and stick to it.

When I first told my wife she shot me down - but I just told he it's something I was going to do and she has to trust my judgment.

I married my wife - not my parent...

Now she fully supports it and thinks it's SEXY. :D
 
she just asking me to do blood work ,after my cycle, and she is ok with injection 2 time a week, so i try to use long acting gear,
 
Do your research and let her know. Be able to answer any question she has about it. Then she should be able to trust your judgment a lot better.
 
Definitely some good input in here, thanks guys.

Figure I'll break the ice on this one in the next month or two, I'll post back up and let you guys know how it goes.
 
my woman knew about my first cycle and was hesitant about it, after the cycle was over she said she didnt want me back on it, to save the bitching i didnt tell her about this cycle and she found my test and deca Thursday and flipped shit. lol. she kept saying, she isnt gonna be with somebody on steroids. fuck was i pissed and going the fuck off and she kept saying i had roid rage lol. fuck no i was pissed cuz she was being a cunt for no reason. showed her this thread and showed her what yall were saying and she has eased up a bit. i told her that media has given steroids a bad name and it is all bull shit. i need to find some more info to show her that they r good, and safe if done right and not abused
 
I live with my gf of 4 yrs so shes not my wife but I told her I was thinking about doing it and kinda got the same "you better not"...

Then a buddy of mine started doing some and she was like "wow Matts gotten pretty big lately" I told her he was on AS's and she was like "well dam then I guess I'm ok with it" in a joking mode... but I got some and started even knowing it was a joke... didn't tell her I was on until 5 weeks in when I really started gaining. She was totally cool with it actually.... now had a raged or got all acne covered I would imagine it would have been different.

Let her know you've done your research and you will stop at the first sign of crazy and just make sure it doesn't happen... that would be my plan anyway.
 
yeah man, she thinks i get roid rage which i dont, i do get mad easy and have a hell of a temper but shit, that is just me on or off cycle, the steroids do not make a difference. just something she can blame it on. but i definitely do not abuse and have doe my research and know exactly what im doing and i know im doing it right. just wish there was something besides a thread based on people opinions tat backed me up ya know. wish i could show her facts from doctors and stuff.
 
pretty simple im not married but been with my girl for 4 years and when the results caught upp she had nothing to sayy what woman can complain when you look like a fckn statue hahahah
 
haha very true, she is insecure and thinks im doing it for other women lol. when me and her have been together for almost 3 years
 
ive heard that one before too i say i dont do anything to my body for anyone but myself for the sense of accomplishment and the satisfaction of seeing progress
 
ive never one drugs or anything harmful to my body, my argument to her is why would i start now, u only get 1 fucking body in life and im gonna make sure i take care of it. she is gonna have to be ok with it cuz im not stopping.
 
just make sure you post cycle therapy (pct) right so you can give her babies loll and when she pisses u off breathe and walk away haha i wouldnt say i get roid rage but arguments can get pretty intense especially when dumb shit comes out of their mouth and they swear by it...best of luck
 
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