How to convince ??

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Hey guys , I was about to start my first cycle, but my wife is not convinced... I educated her about it and all, but she is not ready to accept it and I do not want to hide it from her.
What should I do ?:rolleyes2:flamingma
 
Honestly bro, at this point you just have to tell her you're a full grown man and your gonna do what you want to do! You have to pick your battles but this one you already made your mind up on by having a whole cycle ready to go (hopefully you do since you said your about to start) Just remember this if you told her you though shopping was bad for her and you forbid her from ever doing it she would laugh in your face! Sometime you just have to stick up for yourself, just like she would. Just don't lie to her it's just not worth it....
 
Honestly bro, at this point you just have to tell her you're a full grown man and your gonna do what you want to do! You have to pick your battles but this one you already made your mind up on by having a whole cycle ready to go (hopefully you do since you said your about to start) Just remember this if you told her you though shopping was bad for her and you forbid her from ever doing it she would laugh in your face! Sometime you just have to stick up for yourself, just like she would. Just don't lie to her it's just not worth it....

Yeah bro , yu are right ! but.. she thinks it will give me many side effects and its not worth. She is telling me that continue naturally .. I was expecting her support .. but now I am confused :-\
 
Im going through a similar battle with my gf. I told her I was doing it with or without her consent and if she doesnt like it she can go on her way...I dont like being a dick to her about it but Ive tried educating her but she doesnt want to budge on it. She wont leave me over it, she just wont ever approve of it. It's not a big deal now since we arent married but whenever we take that plunge im sure she will get a little more say in it since "we" are technically paying for it. Ill just giver her ultimatums when that time comes...if shes getting that $500 designer purse, Im getting an equal dollar amounts worth of AAS.
 
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I hope she doesn't tell anyone "girl friend" or "mother" about what you are trying to do. Hmmm you are walking a thin line. I can't make a decision for you in this situation because I don't know you and your spouse. You are a man and she is a woman. That is all. Through Sickness and Health.
 
Hey guys , I was about to start my first cycle, but my wife is not convinced... I educated her about it and all, but she is not ready to accept it and I do not want to hide it from her.
What should I do ?:rolleyes2:flamingma

Are you really in the U.A.E. I travel through their often. :)
 
Im going through a similar battle with my gf. I told her I was doing it with or without her consent and if she doesnt like it she can go on her way...I dont like being a dick to her about it but Ive tried educating her but she doesnt want to budge on it. She wont leave me over it, she just wont ever approve of it. It's not a big deal now since we arent married but whenever we take that plunge im sure she will get a little more say in it since "we" are techinically paying for it. Ill just giver her ultimatums when that time comes...if shes getting that $500 designer purse, Im getting an equal dollar amounts worth of AAS.

Same exact story here. I try telling her it's essentially no different than her regulating her hormones using birth control. Once we sat down and watched 'Bigger, Stronger, Faster' together I think she is letting up a bit.

And interestingly, I bought her a 500 dollar purse yesterday haha...
 
Same exact story here. I try telling her it's essentially no different than her regulating her hormones using birth control. Once we sat down and watched 'Bigger, Stronger, Faster' together I think she is letting up a bit.

And interestingly, I bought her a 500 dollar purse yesterday haha...

excellent work lol
 
It comes down to what you value more....To be honest, she is showing genuine concern. Your the man she married, as in trusted with her life. Your supposed to be there to support her into old age, and you are risking that possibility over a drug.

Thats basically what it comes down to.
 
It comes down to what you value more....To be honest, she is showing genuine concern. Your the man she married, as in trusted with her life. Your supposed to be there to support her into old age, and you are risking that possibility over a drug.

Thats basically what it comes down to.

very well said brother:dance2:
 
Just stick yourself, once she starts to see the positive effects gear has she wont be complaining anymore
 
Hey guys , I was about to start my first cycle, but my wife is not convinced... I educated her about it and all, but she is not ready to accept it and I do not want to hide it from her.
What should I do ?:rolleyes2:flamingma

Her reaction is pretty normal, AA's are given a really negative reputation, so, she's probably concerned you'll turn into a "Roid range maniac" or that your health will be in jeopardy.... If she's started taking a supp or medication that has a bad reputation, you'll be concerned as well.

The only way to go about it IMO, is to continue to talk to her, hear what she has to say & let her know you'll be responsible & careful with your use (blood work,etc)

I was concerned too at first, I did my own research & realized that if your spouse is determined, no point in going against it,
(as long as the use is done responsibly)
you are both partners in the relationship, and supporting each other is what both should be doing.

If she's made up her mind, Then u need to decide if u still want to do a cycle, and what that will do to your relationship,
she might change her mind, or she might not.
 
Her reaction is pretty normal, AA's are given a really negative reputation, so, she's probably concerned you'll turn into a "Roid range maniac" or that your health will be in jeopardy.... If she's started taking a supp or medication that has a bad reputation, you'll be concerned as well.

The only way to go about it IMO, is to continue to talk to her, hear what she has to say & let her know you'll be responsible & careful with your use (blood work,etc)

I was concerned too at first, I did my own research & realized that if your spouse is determined, no point in going against it,
(as long as the use is done responsibly)
you are both partners in the relationship, and supporting each other is what both should be doing.

If she's made up her mind, Then u need to decide if u still want to do a cycle, and what that will do to your relationship,
she might change her mind, or she might not.

Nice Sig; Mrs.P, You Roman Catholic also?
 
Tell her that you have very low testosterone levels!

That is the only thing that makes sense if you are seeking per permission j/k but hey it might work
 
What are her objections? Ask her to list them so you can refute them with facts. You must be prepared to answer whatever questions/concerns she has. If she's being stubborn for no reason other than media stigma, then I'm sorry to say you married a close-minded woman.
 
Her reaction is pretty normal, AA's are given a really negative reputation, so, she's probably concerned you'll turn into a "Roid range maniac" or that your health will be in jeopardy.... If she's started taking a supp or medication that has a bad reputation, you'll be concerned as well.

The only way to go about it IMO, is to continue to talk to her, hear what she has to say & let her know you'll be responsible & careful with your use (blood work,etc)

I was concerned too at first, I did my own research & realized that if your spouse is determined, no point in going against it,
(as long as the use is done responsibly)
you are both partners in the relationship, and supporting each other is what both should be doing.

If she's made up her mind, Then u need to decide if u still want to do a cycle, and what that will do to your relationship,
she might change her mind, or she might not.

Thanks :)
 
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