slair
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ok, let me first start by saying i am not homophoebic, and feel that gay people should have the right to live the way they want. But anyways....heres my story.
To start off, about 1 month ago i was grocery shopping and this extremely flaming gay guy whom i've never met asks me, as i load my groceries into my car, if i work at the gym where i live.....Obviously i could see what his intentions were, but i politely told him i don't work there which was true, and went on my way.
well today, I was about halfway through my grocery shopping when i noticed the same very flamboyant and flaming guy nearby in one of the isles...no big deal, just ignored and continued shopping. eventually he started showing up near most of the places where i was going in the supermarket...and somehow managed to finish his shopping the same exact time i did....now i started to feel a little uneasy lol.
As i walked my cart to my car, i knew he was behind me thinking of what to say. Heres where it gets creepy. As i unload my groceries he stops next to me, and asks me the same exact question he did 1 month ago. I once again politely say no, but that i just work out there.
Next he compliments my chest and asks me what exercises would be best to develop chest. At this point its obvious to me whats going on, but i just didnt wanna be rude and be like yoooooo im not gay brah!!! anyways he keeps going and asks me for a good routine blah blah, then he asks me how his chest looks, and i cant even look at him.
At this point im unloading the groceries into my trunk like a cracked out methhead .......all the while trying not to maintain eye contact. The only ramblings i could manage to say were "..it's all diet bro...its all diet". Finally he says thanks for the info, and he looked like he wanted to say more, but i just say "no problem", get in my car fast, and takeoff. While hitting stoplights on the way home, all i could think was "please don't be behind me"
Anyways this whole situation just feels so awkward and wrong to me...i am very much totally straight and just the thought of homosexuality makes me nautious (once again...no disrespect to gay people, but thats just the way i feel). However,Looking back, i feel i should have told the kid i was not gay...but i thought it would be obvious the way i talked and carried myself (very straight). That and the fact that i showed absolutely no interest in talking to him.
After all was said and done, i feel like i understand a little bit of what women go through on a daily basis. Before, i used to be like "boo hoo, so women have to deal with being hit on....what a hard and cruel life they live". Although i still don't think its the end of the world, it did make me think. Its gotta suck sometimes having to worry about awkward situations caused by some dumb fuck dude that can't take a hint.
Anyone else have experiences like this???? What are your thoughts?? ladies?
To start off, about 1 month ago i was grocery shopping and this extremely flaming gay guy whom i've never met asks me, as i load my groceries into my car, if i work at the gym where i live.....Obviously i could see what his intentions were, but i politely told him i don't work there which was true, and went on my way.
well today, I was about halfway through my grocery shopping when i noticed the same very flamboyant and flaming guy nearby in one of the isles...no big deal, just ignored and continued shopping. eventually he started showing up near most of the places where i was going in the supermarket...and somehow managed to finish his shopping the same exact time i did....now i started to feel a little uneasy lol.
As i walked my cart to my car, i knew he was behind me thinking of what to say. Heres where it gets creepy. As i unload my groceries he stops next to me, and asks me the same exact question he did 1 month ago. I once again politely say no, but that i just work out there.
Next he compliments my chest and asks me what exercises would be best to develop chest. At this point its obvious to me whats going on, but i just didnt wanna be rude and be like yoooooo im not gay brah!!! anyways he keeps going and asks me for a good routine blah blah, then he asks me how his chest looks, and i cant even look at him.
At this point im unloading the groceries into my trunk like a cracked out methhead .......all the while trying not to maintain eye contact. The only ramblings i could manage to say were "..it's all diet bro...its all diet". Finally he says thanks for the info, and he looked like he wanted to say more, but i just say "no problem", get in my car fast, and takeoff. While hitting stoplights on the way home, all i could think was "please don't be behind me"
Anyways this whole situation just feels so awkward and wrong to me...i am very much totally straight and just the thought of homosexuality makes me nautious (once again...no disrespect to gay people, but thats just the way i feel). However,Looking back, i feel i should have told the kid i was not gay...but i thought it would be obvious the way i talked and carried myself (very straight). That and the fact that i showed absolutely no interest in talking to him.
After all was said and done, i feel like i understand a little bit of what women go through on a daily basis. Before, i used to be like "boo hoo, so women have to deal with being hit on....what a hard and cruel life they live". Although i still don't think its the end of the world, it did make me think. Its gotta suck sometimes having to worry about awkward situations caused by some dumb fuck dude that can't take a hint.
Anyone else have experiences like this???? What are your thoughts?? ladies?
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