safety-man
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this is the most important point of all, because if your spending 60 hours a week together at work + the hours at home this relationship will be over before it even starts,lol.
Need some genuine advice
- Thread starter Mr. Humdiddly
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this is the most important point of all, because if your spending 60 hours a week together at work + the hours at home this relationship will be over before it even starts,lol.
Mr. Humdiddly
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Lol. Thanks safety. I needed that. At any rate let me say thanks for the advice. In the future though I would prefer some advice from the older or married guys. I still like a good romp in the hay, but if I need that I can hit a bar. I am not some young guy on the prowl anymore.
safety-man
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dude i have been married for over 8 years now and to contradict what others have said i did the same as you, actually worse because i only knew my wife for a short while when i decided that she was wifey material. regardless of your approach, as long as you put forth the effort things will workout if its ment to be...cheers!
Larrybird
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From the way you're describing the situation, it doesn't sound like you've had much experience being 'on the prowl', because if you did, you would understand how this situation with your 'potential wifey material' would work. How do you like someone for a year and just sit back in the shadow? That sounds like something I did back in 8th grade.
Women, just like men, are biological creatures of nature. What attracts you to the opposite sex and the opposite sex to you is generally universally the same among sexes.
Why do you think women like men with, broad shoulders, taller height, deeper voices, social intelligence, money, etc...
Visa versa, men are attracted to women with wider hip to waist ratio, fuller lips, bigger pupils, big breasts, etc...
Do you think they all sat down one day and said, "Hey girls, we need to START liking men with these traits". Hell no! It's evolutionary the reasons they're attracted to the things they are, and if you know that, you can take advantage of that fact.
In the case of safety-man and you, we're not saying that it's not OK to marry within such a short time of knowing a person. In fact, my parents knew each other for 6 months and have been married over 35+ years. We're saying that marriage should not be your aim when getting to know a person (neither sex for that matter). From the sounds of it, safety-man has a successful relationship with he and his lady friends. That's hard to come by nowadays, especially after knowing each other so little before getting married. Kudos!
I think what most of us are trying to portray is the overall bigger picture of the situation.
Here is one girl that you like (out of millions that exist in the world that are probably just as qualified as she is) and you're putting all your eggs in one basket. You know what happens when you drop your basket full of eggs? They are all more likely to get crushed. It's better to spread your eggs in multiple different baskets to reduce the risk of getting them all broken.
You created a thread that asked for genuine advice in helping you succeed getting this girl. Yet, you're not listening to any of the advice that anyone has given you. When we say to you, get to know her, we're not talking about finding out what her favorite drink is, or what her favorite picnic lunch is. When we say talk to her, we're not talking about small talk like 'hi' and 'bye'. The process of courtship to relationship is a science, much like steroids are just a science. Just like there is an algorithm to a math problem that is put on the board, there is a drawn out algorithm for succeeding in relationships. The hard part is, they don't teach you that algorithm in school and you're set up to find it yourself.
As you'd probably insist upon, I will not be offering anymore 'advice' to you on the subject. You know, when you hear someone talk or present a subject on something, you pretty much can point out the people that know what they are talking about. For instance, if I needed help on anything steroid related, I'd come to you because I see the credible advice you offer people. I find that you're a very intelligent man, and have a lot of knowledge in that receptacle of yours. But, I can't sit here and steer you in what I believe is the right direction, especially when you're convinced otherwise. The only way you'd ever know if I was right is if you grabbed the wheel for yourself and eventually drove. When someone offered me advice on women the first time, I told them to go screw themselves. I said to them, that'd never work in a million years, but then I started trying it, and get guess what? It worked better than anything else I had.
Best of luck man. No hard feelings at all. I'm not saying that I know anymore about women than you know about them. All I was trying to do was offer some genuine advice for a guy that has been in my situation before.
Mr P
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Ok, I'm not trying to derrail this thread, or hijack it.. But I HAVE TO SAY THIS :
Larrybird: What u talk about willys? and what u mean us short people? why, I Atta get my stool and grab you by the neck !!!..
This thread was fine and dandy until you said that women like only tall, smart, wide shoulder dudes with a deep voice.
I don't have any of that, I'm 5'7 have a kid's voice, and have the intellenge of a 3 year old toddler... and hey, I got me a nice, Good looking Spanier chick..
So, WHY ARE YOU HAITTTTING ON THE LITTLE DUDES ???
Do u thing I'm the first guy to die in the movie, just cause I'm short ???
If u notice this is the order in wich people die or get killed in movies
1. Blacks
2. Hispanics
3. Short dudes, (specially fat ones)
I'm just saying, Humdiddly: I think you're overthinking this whole thing too much bro,
If you think she's special, take your time and start letting her know, continue giving her hints,
Tell u what, buy her roses and tell her
you think she's special and you would like to ask her out on a date"
and IF ALL FAILS.. Just act like if you have DOWN SYNDROME..The stupider you get (cause you're a smart guy) the more she'll like you...lol
Larrybird
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Haha, no, no,no I didn't say they ONLY like, I said they 'like'. They do prefer men with those traits because they're 'better' mating material. However, in the world of women you can talk them to death and win them over if you're funny, charming, confident... I'm just saying from an evolutionary standpoint.
My buddy is 5'7" and he pulls mad women ALL the time. Its redic to go see him work. He will tell me right before he goes up to a chick "I'm going to sleep with her", and 8/10 times he does. He's not the easiest on the eyes either....
And, cmon Pinga, fat midgets die last because they're harder to kill! C'mon now....
Mr. Humdiddly
Knowledge Receptacle
Lol. You know I do appreciate your advice Larry. I think however, not all women are the same. I know what your saying works. I have used some of it to a far lesser degree on chicks at bars. Trust me though this woman is not the gullible stupid type. She hates games and is a straight shooter.
Tell you what if she turns me down I will go use your advice on some chick at the bar and we can both talk shop about it later. I will make a new thread called "Humdiddly needs sex to get over his depresssion", lol.
For this instance though I am going to go with the advice I received from the older married guys. Just because I think you might be a younger gent probably in your early twenties and the women you are into are probably in there early twenties as well. Both myself and this woman are a bit older and not socialites which changes the game a little.
So thank you all for the advice. Special thanks to Cyto, RJH, Pinga, and Safety.
This should all come to a head soon so I will keep you guys posted.
Tell you what if she turns me down I will go use your advice on some chick at the bar and we can both talk shop about it later. I will make a new thread called "Humdiddly needs sex to get over his depresssion", lol.
For this instance though I am going to go with the advice I received from the older married guys. Just because I think you might be a younger gent probably in your early twenties and the women you are into are probably in there early twenties as well. Both myself and this woman are a bit older and not socialites which changes the game a little.
So thank you all for the advice. Special thanks to Cyto, RJH, Pinga, and Safety.
This should all come to a head soon so I will keep you guys posted.
Mr. Humdiddly
Knowledge Receptacle
So here is the update. Yesterday we were stuck in the lab pretty late since my current manager wants the bulk of the project completed before I transfer out. Never had such a great 14 hour day.
She was definitely putting out signs. She was very touchy yesterday. She even put her hand on the side of my face and complimented me on how smooth my skin always is. Then she leaned in and inhaled and complimented me on my choice of after shave.
Then she would call me over to help her with simple tasks like organic asymmetric synthesis (chiral synthesis in layman's terms). She was acting like she had no idea that enantiomer's can vary the bioactivity of chiral molecules. That's like asking if sauce changes the taste of a pizza.
At any rate as we were leaving she turns to me and says, "Your lucky you know, most girls wouldn't wait a year for a guy to grow a pair." Then she laughed and left.
Sure I looked like a dope and the big grin on my face did not help any, but damn what a great day!
She was definitely putting out signs. She was very touchy yesterday. She even put her hand on the side of my face and complimented me on how smooth my skin always is. Then she leaned in and inhaled and complimented me on my choice of after shave.
Then she would call me over to help her with simple tasks like organic asymmetric synthesis (chiral synthesis in layman's terms). She was acting like she had no idea that enantiomer's can vary the bioactivity of chiral molecules. That's like asking if sauce changes the taste of a pizza.
At any rate as we were leaving she turns to me and says, "Your lucky you know, most girls wouldn't wait a year for a guy to grow a pair." Then she laughed and left.
Sure I looked like a dope and the big grin on my face did not help any, but damn what a great day!
LANDSCAPE1
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Sound like shits gonna work out..... Keep playing it cool, no matter if she throws u a curveball here and there.. And down the road whenever u decide to fornicate w her, make sure u give her the POUNDING OF HER LIFE!!!!
-Do work
Mr P
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take her out on a date now buddy!!!
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Here's the only advice you need Hum.
STOP COMING TO THIS FUCKING THREAD AND DO WHAT YOU THINK IS RIGHT!!!
Jesus christ, you guys are making all of this into a fucking mess. I know he asked for help, but its gone too far.
Hum, you're in a great place. Relax and take it easy. This isn't just a piece of ass and while I appreciate Larrybird's candor, his advice is not what you need. You are not on the prowl... you like a chic. Whether it works or not, you ain't gonna have none of these guys in your corner come game time, so get to it and do what you do.
Good luck. Sounds like things are looking up.
STOP COMING TO THIS FUCKING THREAD AND DO WHAT YOU THINK IS RIGHT!!!
Jesus christ, you guys are making all of this into a fucking mess. I know he asked for help, but its gone too far.
Hum, you're in a great place. Relax and take it easy. This isn't just a piece of ass and while I appreciate Larrybird's candor, his advice is not what you need. You are not on the prowl... you like a chic. Whether it works or not, you ain't gonna have none of these guys in your corner come game time, so get to it and do what you do.
Good luck. Sounds like things are looking up.
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Entertaining!!
safety-man
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If this isn't a green light, I am color blind!
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