I need to chime in on this one. Hopefully this isn't considered "hijacking" a thread, if so, maybe it can be moved. But after having been in this business for a long time, I find that most of my clients, at one point or another, actually become obsessed, to the point of it being unhealthy, mentally, with the "hard on". I have honestly found that many guys are confusing erectile difficulty WITH relationship difficulty. Now yes, there are a lot of dudes out there that just flat out, love to fuck. They love the variety and that is the thing that fires them up the most. But a great many of the standard, low T related cases of ED are related to the married or monogamous demographic. And among the countless of cases that are tossed at me, where guys need help, a lot of that help really needs to start within their own head and in the confines of their relationship. Dont get me wrong, ED is a real issue. Make ZERO bones about it, but i know for a fact that there are a great many guys out there who are beating the hell out of themselves for a lack of performance between the sheets, when the real problem simply lies in the fact that they aren't truly happy in the relationship anymore and the spark is gone. Then, once they confuse a lack of desire for that particular partner with an overall "loss of libido", their confidence in their own ability goes straight in the shitter and even if they do break free from that relationship, they wind up not being able to perform at all in future encounters. Everyone thinks that testosterone is simply a guaranteed "dick stiffener", but its just not the case. As human beings, we are all "wired" differently and respond to different stimuli in different ways. So just a bit of good advice... If you are having issues, sure low "T" levels could definitely be a HUGE contributing factor, but make sure you are being totally true to yourself, before you beat yourself up to badly, regarding other influences that may be contributing to the problem.
Hmmm. Hard to gauge (pardon the pun). Prior to testosterone replacement therapy (TRT) I was having E.D. and libido issues. The wife and I had sex maybe a couple of times a month and we were both pretty content with that interval. That speaks volumes about how far down the shitter the libido had gone for both of us. We were daily fuckers for years back in the spring chicken days of our early dating.
On testosterone replacement therapy (TRT) my libido returned immediately. Hers, obviously did not, because she doesn't perceive any sort of problem on her end. So I end up punching the clown daily unless there is some hint she might be willing to give up the pie and then I hold off in anticipation. As you can imagine there's about as much accuracy to this process as reading tea leaves and I end up sexually frustrated more often than not. My E.D. issues happen rarely but haven't gone away completely. Cialis takes care of the worries if it seems like I might be having issues.
Now if I could only get my wife to look into her libido issues I'd be a happy poon-pounding king again. I haven't strayed on her yet but as I've gotten in better shape the offers that have rolled across my plate in the last few months have been mighty tempting. I may have to step up the pace to blasting the baby batter twice a day.
Hmmm. Hard to gauge (pardon the pun). Prior to testosterone replacement therapy (TRT) I was having E.D. and libido issues. The wife and I had sex maybe a couple of times a month and we were both pretty content with that interval. That speaks volumes about how far down the shitter the libido had gone for both of us. We were daily fuckers for years back in the spring chicken days of our early dating.
On testosterone replacement therapy (TRT) my libido returned immediately. Hers, obviously did not, because she doesn't perceive any sort of problem on her end. So I end up punching the clown daily unless there is some hint she might be willing to give up the pie and then I hold off in anticipation. As you can imagine there's about as much accuracy to this process as reading tea leaves and I end up sexually frustrated more often than not. My E.D. issues happen rarely but haven't gone away completely. Cialis takes care of the worries if it seems like I might be having issues.
Now if I could only get my wife to look into her libido issues I'd be a happy poon-pounding king again. I haven't strayed on her yet but as I've gotten in better shape the offers that have rolled across my plate in the last few months have been mighty tempting. I may have to step up the pace to blasting the baby batter twice a day.
I too need to bust bust one every day. My frustration level spikes also if I dont...
Ed... this is so freaking funny... and so freakign true... you have just described most married man... how many of us delay spanking the monkey in hopes the planets are lined up and we might get to pet the kitty... and.. how many times is it that as you are holding out, she is in bed, lights out, dead to the world... so that is when you fire up the PC and go to those sites we all go to... because there is no chance that we don't spank the monkey.. hell no.. we mentally have already entered "launch sequence".. so it has to be done.. we are tired, ready for bed.. but dammit, the deed has to be done and so we do it.. cause we have no choice... lol....