The Girl At The Gym

crazyfmike said:
Respect her training and keep your "thing" away from the gym.

I was eyeballing you and just looked at me like I was sick...... WTF is up with that?
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You sick old man!

Im sorry but she brought it on herself stretching in front of me and smileing and making eye contact.:D
 
Yup can't wait to cut later this year!

BTW we better get some pics! Just take a pic of her in the mirror with your phone...she'll never know MUAH HAHA
 
I dont want to look like a creeper!!! But i will get a pic you better believe it. ill work hard for it to. Ill go 007 tomorrow when i see her. Take a few pics then go talk to her. so if i get denied i still have the pics.
 
lol don't risk it with the pics bro I was just kidding. If she catches you that could end it before it begins!
 
DaHurt said:
lol don't risk it with the pics bro I was just kidding. If she catches you that could end it before it begins!
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I still say leave your shit out of the gym.

More likely this won't last and then that uncomfortable shit will haunt you both just thinking "I wonder of she's there"?

I like my workouts unscathed by anything and make people at the gym hate me and walk far big circles around me.

Nothing fucking worse then a great set going bad some fuck walking up and waiting to ask "do you inject protein powder"?
 
crazyfmike said:
I still say leave your shit out of the gym.

More likely this won't last and then that uncomfortable shit will haunt you both just thinking "I wonder of she's there"?

I like my workouts unscathed by anything and make people at the gym hate me and walk far big circles around me.

Nothing fucking worse then a great set going bad some fuck walking up and waiting to ask "do you inject protein powder"?
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That is why im going back in forth on it mike. Because i dont want that weird feeling if it did go bad. I know i will be in the gym regardless whatever happens and i know she will to, doing these fitness comp's. So i go back in forth saying to myself she went that far to make contact with me maybe she will come up to me:). But idk....
 
The first opener you have is apologizing for ignoring her at the gym and explain why - you heard she was training for a competition. That should lead to her talking about herself and what she is doing. Be interested in what she is doing. Ask questions. If she wants you to take her out, she will give you an opening (no pun intended). Just recognize the opening and ask her out. It probably won't be for dinner or a drink since she is in training but it may be for something like a run/jog or walking her dog or whatever it may be, perhaps a movie. Done deal.
 
josh30013 said:
So the other day i ran into a girl at the gym we both noticed each other and both kind of smiled and made eye contact with each other. I didn't know who the girl was at the time. And so i get home and i check my facebook and she sent me a friend request. Which i accepted and she liked a few of my status's from awhile back. (Sorry for facebook drama lol i hate it). So i get told by my sister today which knows her, that she is training for a fitness competition. Which is so hot and attractive in my opinion. I go to the gym today and she shows up 10 minutes after i get there. Long story short i had no game plan what so ever and we avoided each other like the black plague. We made contact once and she smiled at me. but that was it. I'm really never shy around any girl what so ever. And i kept thinking to myself she takes her training seriously and so do i. Which kind of made me think not to approach her while shes training(i mean i get pissed when someone does it to me). So after i was done i go in the tanning room i get done and opened the door and boom there she was... what did i do i acted like a ass and acted like i didn't notice her and walked right by her... So what I'm asking is how would i go about approaching this girl.. I'm not going to lie i think she intimidates me because she so good looking...So calling all Biro's and ladies i need some advice!
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OK, so guys for the most part at my gym are pretty smart and DO NOT bother me during training. The way guys usually break the ice is by asking or saying "i heard you're competing in this" or "What are you training for" Which in reality is like a huge compliment so it always makes my day followed by loving to talk to this cute guy who is "interested" in what I'm doing with my training.

So like someone said earlier, definitely approach her with the whole competition thing AFTER her workout.....girls really like it. But if you notice she's one of those girls who kind of doesn't really smile at anyone cuz she likes to just train and keep to herself but she does so happen to smile at you...then most likely she digs you so go for it!!!
 
MARILYN said:
OK, so guys for the most part at my gym are pretty smart and DO NOT bother me during training. The way guys usually break the ice is by asking or saying "i heard you're competing in this" or "What are you training for" Which in reality is like a huge compliment so it always makes my day followed by loving to talk to this cute guy who is "interested" in what I'm doing with my training.

So like someone said earlier, definitely approach her with the whole competition thing AFTER her workout.....girls really like it. But if you notice she's one of those girls who kind of doesn't really smile at anyone cuz she likes to just train and keep to herself but she does so happen to smile at you...then most likely she digs you so go for it!!!
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Lol yeah its funny because we both stair at the ground or at our selfs when we workout. and she will never make eye contact with no one. and doesnt smile at no one. But she did to me. And she is always stretching infront of me! And getting a drink at the same time i am? Hmmm i think i need to man up and just go for it. She so damn cute/sexy its crazy. I will probaly talk to her today at the gym we go at the same time. So i will let every one know how it goes.
 
MARILYN said:
OK, so guys for the most part at my gym are pretty smart and DO NOT bother me during training. The way guys usually break the ice is by asking or saying "i heard you're competing in this" or "What are you training for" Which in reality is like a huge compliment so it always makes my day followed by loving to talk to this cute guy who is "interested" in what I'm doing with my training.

So like someone said earlier, definitely approach her with the whole competition thing AFTER her workout.....girls really like it. But if you notice she's one of those girls who kind of doesn't really smile at anyone cuz she likes to just train and keep to herself but she does so happen to smile at you...then most likely she digs you so go for it!!!
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hah good info, I would say go for it bro! But I would prob be the same way, fitness chicks are intimidating lol
 
josh30013 said:
Lol yeah its funny because we both stair at the ground or at our selfs when we workout. and she will never make eye contact with no one. and doesnt smile at no one. But she did to me. And she is always stretching infront of me! And getting a drink at the same time i am? Hmmm i think i need to man up and just go for it. She so damn cute/sexy its crazy. I will probaly talk to her today at the gym we go at the same time. So i will let every one know how it goes.
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Good luck Josh!!
 
So this is how it went today.... i got to the gym doing some front squats driving this damn bar in to my collar bone because it just feels so damn good. but other wise she walked in the gym with like 5 of her friends. So i didnt make the move today because she was trying to show all of her friends things. But today i didnt get a look or smile or nothing.....
 
josh30013 said:
So this is how it went today.... i got to the gym doing some front squats driving this damn bar in to my collar bone because it just feels so damn good. but other wise she walked in the gym with like 5 of her friends. So i didnt make the move today because she was trying to show all of her friends things. But today i didnt get a look or smile or nothing.....
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Josh - Marylin is right, don't bother her at the gym. If she went out of her way to find you and friend you on FB, then send her a message. Apologize if it seemed like you were "brushing her off" at the gym but explain why - because you heard she was in training and you wanted to respect that space. End with something simple like "anyways I just wanted to say hi" and see where it goes from there. If she responds with something vague, then move on. Chances are, if you are picking up a vibe from her and she went thru the trouble to find and friend you on FB (plus like some OLD posts - which means she was digging around!), you two will most likely hit it off.

You don't know until you try, brother!
 
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