Dating

Smilee21 said:
I don't mind men approaching me as long as their not interrupting my Sets... (I'm there to train lol) not get a date.
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...and that's a key point with me. I'm there to kick some arse and I assume she is there for the same thing. So why would I interrupt her training to hit on her? That would be very disrespectful.

Plus, being on a cycle right now, I don't want to talk to any women when all I'm wearing are my shorts and t-shirt... I might poke an eye out.:angel2:
 
stevenmd said:
...and that's a key point with me. I'm there to kick some arse and I assume she is there for the same thing. So why would I interrupt her training to hit on her? That would be very disrespectful.

Plus, being on a cycle right now, I don't want to talk to any women when all I'm wearing are my shorts and t-shirt... I might poke an eye out.:angel2:
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LOL... we don't want anyone's eyes poked out. But then again, why would their heads be that close to your lower half in the gym...???

If you were spotting a female as she is bench pressing... LOL I could see where it could happen. :)
 
Jenner said:
haha, I was kidding for the most part, I get the respect thing and I think you are right as that's why I don't bother anyone unless I need a spot. I can not stand to be bothered while training...so when they say that "the gym is a good place to meet peeps"......I think not! :)
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I am the same way... I don't like bothering ppl, only time I will approach one of them is when I'm increasing my weights to an amount that I know is quite heavy and I want to make sure that MY FORM is always correct and to asssit with my last reps when I seem to have difficulty pushing it up.
 
Ironicaly, the gym is the only place I haven't tried to pic up a date from.

For me, the gym is "my" time.....where I go to get out all the days frusterations. I'm very serious about my workouts, i don't really talk to anybody, i don't go to check out women.......I put my earphones in and do work. There are always a ton of beautiful women there but if they feel half the way I do about my workouts then I do not want to interupt them.
 
I met this great Guy the other night at a MS Charity event I attended in my swim coach's honor. We hit it off right away, we are both single and have exchanged numbers, he performs in a band and I am going to one of his upcoming shows. He is a little different from the normal type of men I am attracted too but there is something about him that Draws me closer to him. This is the fun stage, the getting to know eachother stage (I will say this, I wanted him to bite me. I have a feeling he is a lot like me. I can just Sense these kind of things.) lol
 
Rollergirl said:
Not to hijack your thread...but I have a question for advice...
How does a fit, decent looking unapproachable girl like myself approach a fit, hot guy that is also unapproachable? (at the gym) We both totally stare at each other.. but neither of us will make a move. I think we are scared of each other! lol
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approach him, simple as that. I would almost never approach a girl in the gym just for the fact that i wouldnt want to make them uncomfortable, if one was to approach me, well then thats a different story
 
Smilee21 said:
I have noticed some are way to cocky. But after a while they come around and are not too bad of guys. They just take a while to open up to you. This one guy would just look at me from afar and not say one word to me. He now converses with me and wants me to do deadlifts and other exercises with him.
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I think sometimes because you percieve a guy as big, muscular, etc. him being quiet and not approaching, while looking at you or whatever comes off as arrogance or cocky, when in fact its the opposite. not that he lacks self-confidence, but he's almost intimidated? to approach you. Im not scared of any girl, dont care who it is, but come gym time i feel weird approaching girls..i have a gf anyways so its irrelevant but in general i know people think im an asshole, when in reality its the complete opposite

Jenner said:
lol, yeah I'm thinking they are more afraid of us serious workout ladies than we are of them. :)
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true statement lol
 
stevenmd said:
ladies, ladies, ladies... Some of us were taught to respect women. I would never approach a woman unless there was some sort of eye contact or smile to give me the go ahead. I'm not shy, i'll usually say what's on my mind - smilee can vouch for that :devil2: - but, for me, it's all about respecting one's space at the gym. If i don't see the signs, i'm not going to do anything more than say "hi".
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exactly
 
sorry to change this, smiles made me think of this because she's the same height as me...would any of you girls date a guy shorter than you? or guys who read the women section lol would you date a girl taller than you?
 
barnzy7 said:
sorry to change this, smiles made me think of this because she's the same height as me...would any of you girls date a guy shorter than you? or guys who read the women section lol would you date a girl taller than you?
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I would date someone my height or shorter. There are a few ppl in my life, that I like and their height isn't an issue with me.
 
barnzy7 said:
sorry to change this, smiles made me think of this because she's the same height as me...would any of you girls date a guy shorter than you? or guys who read the women section lol would you date a girl taller than you?
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Well I am 5'8" and love my heels (although I don't wear them chasing my son around during the day), but going out I am more than likely going to be 5'11. lol But I am only 123lbs. Anyways, I guess it really depends on the guy, I have come to realize it is very hard to find a guy taller than me that is my taste in face and body. My ex's have all been around the same height as me or a little taller. But not by much.

Guys seem to love that I am tall. If they don't then maybe they are insecure about their height?
 
Sassytassie84 said:
Well I am 5'8" and love my heels (although I don't wear them chasing my son around during the day), but going out I am more than likely going to be 5'11. lol But I am only 123lbs. Anyways, I guess it really depends on the guy, I have come to realize it is very hard to find a guy taller than me that is my taste in face and body. My ex's have all been around the same height as me or a little taller. But not by much.

Guys seem to love that I am tall. If they don't then maybe they are insecure about their height?
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haha what are you trying to get at
 
barnzy7 said:
haha what are you trying to get at
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Whoa whoa whoa.... haha I have no idea how tall you are... but if a guy wont date a girl (if she is perfect in every other way), because she is an inch or so taller, then I think that means they are insecure about their own height. Why would me being tall be a prob? Worry about me being a smoker first =p lol.
 
Im not insecure bout my height at all, but i do think all guys need to protect their ladies, not that if she's taller than the guy you can't by psychologically, it messes with you if that makes sense? I def. feel like i can take care of a shorter girl rather than one thats taller than me, maybe because she looks up to me or I feel like shes looking up to me to be there? if a girls taller and looking down i guess i feel like she doesnt think I could take care of/protect her?

that probably makes no sense, please some body back me up on this one lol
 
barnzy7 said:
Im not insecure bout my height at all, but i do think all guys need to protect their ladies, not that if she's taller than the guy you can't by psychologically, it messes with you if that makes sense? I def. feel like i can take care of a shorter girl rather than one thats taller than me, maybe because she looks up to me or I feel like shes looking up to me to be there? if a girls taller and looking down i guess i feel like she doesnt think I could take care of/protect her?

that probably makes no sense, please some body back me up on this one lol
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I am 123lbs.... says enough.... lol
 
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