Dating

maybe i should have started the whole thing off differently, if i was with the girl and she was awesome and i was into her id be a fool not to stay with her because shes taller than me, maybe i should of said approach/date/ask out idk. maybe im intimidated? you know sassie after having this convo with you i almost feel like i need a councelor hahaha
 
maybe i should have started the whole thing off differently, if i was with the girl and she was awesome and i was into her id be a fool not to stay with her because shes taller than me, maybe i should of said approach/date/ask out idk. maybe im intimidated? you know sassie after having this convo with you i almost feel like i need a councelor hahaha

LOL I can counsel ya! haha.... Call me Dr. Sassy....

You know its funny.... When I am sitting somewhere I get hit on a lot more than when I am standing in my heels. My bestie says it has nothing to do with height, that they are just intimidated of me period? idk... When I am not wearing my heels, I am not in full make up either, so maybe it makes me look more girl next door?
 
LOL I can counsel ya! haha.... Call me Dr. Sassy....

You know its funny.... When I am sitting somewhere I get hit on a lot more than when I am standing in my heels. My bestie says it has nothing to do with height, that they are just intimidated of me period? idk... When I am not wearing my heels, I am not in full make up either, so maybe it makes me look more girl next door?

haha Dr. sassy...yes thats perfect

its the heels sassy im telling you. btw no makeup is sexy as hell
 
haha Dr. sassy...yes thats perfect

its the heels sassy im telling you. btw no makeup is sexy as hell

The quality (looks wise) of guys goes up when I am in my heels, I am thinking it is their confidence to approach me. Lately they end up married, lol. So the quality is merely looks wise....
 
Id offer to watch your kids but that would defeat the whole purpose!

Haha aww Comon'! but FYI-singular, not plural... only one kid. I do need to get out though, seriously. I really don't know where to even start.... I tend to surround myself with guy friends that I am not attracted to AT ALL, literally just friends. And my type seems to be hard to come by...
 
The quality (looks wise) of guys goes up when I am in my heels, I am thinking it is their confidence to approach me. Lately they end up married, lol. So the quality is merely looks wise....

what do they have to lose? you say no, they go home to their wife
 
Haha aww Comon'! but FYI-singular, not plural... only one kid. I do need to get out though, seriously. I really don't know where to even start.... I tend to surround myself with guy friends that I am not attracted to AT ALL, literally just friends. And my type seems to be hard to come by...

do your guy friends have friends? whats your type? this isnt to make you feel bad, but its the same as winning the lottery, you'll never win if you dont play
 
do your guy friends have friends? whats your type? this isnt to make you feel bad, but its the same as winning the lottery, you'll never win if you dont play

Oh man, I do play... (not like THAT, sicko haha), I have gone on dates. Looks wise, I like meatheads or the modelesque look (chiseled features), shredded. BUT the catch is... THEY HAVE TO BE intelligent, kind, honest, ok with me having a kid, they are usually pretty active already, be self sufficient, financially set (not for the reasons you think, I just cannot afford to take care of another person right now, I do not want someone to take care of me either) etc...

People in LA are not easy to approach or be approached by. You are pretty much stuck in your circle and the circle gets larger with time. However, that is tricky because you don't wanna be THAT girl who has dated everyone in the circle. When I am approached outside of my circle it's creepy guys or it doesn't go past the initial "hey, nice to meet ya" convo because they have no balls to ask for a number. :bash:
 
And like Smilee, I am actually very shy in person (when I like someone), if I only feel friendship I am a smart ass... haahah
 
Oh man, I do play... (not like THAT, sicko haha), I have gone on dates. Looks wise, I like meatheads or the modelesque look (chiseled features), shredded. BUT the catch is... THEY HAVE TO BE intelligent, kind, honest, ok with me having a kid, they are usually pretty active already, be self sufficient, financially set (not for the reasons you think, I just cannot afford to take care of another person right now, I do not want someone to take care of me either) etc...

People in LA are not easy to approach or be approached by. You are pretty much stuck in your circle and the circle gets larger with time. However, that is tricky because you don't wanna be THAT girl who has dated everyone in the circle. When I am approached outside of my circle it's creepy guys or it doesn't go past the initial "hey, nice to meet ya" convo because they have no balls to ask for a number. :bash:

check, check..check..check. sounds like someone i know...but in all seriousness maybe you dont have the balls to give them the #, why dont you just say can i see your phone? "why sassy i dont even know you?"..then you resond, just putting my # in it.

you could always move from LA? if its just you and your child then really whats keeping you there?

or maybe you setting your sights on something that isn't there, not saying settle, but open up your options..truly you have nothing to lose, maybe a few heartaches, but if it gets you a good guy who will take care of you and you child you know its well worth the risk. thats just my .02
 
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