Ethical question, help for brother

[Douce]

Hey guys, I wont bother you with the whole story but here is my delema;

My little brother, who just turned 20, know absolutely nothing about cycling correctly, got talked into talking Dbol, Test C and EQ, in very high doses by one of his little friends...
I told him him he is to young, and for a first cycle three different compunds is a bad idea.
Like I said, hes only 20, he drinks like a fish, pops exctasy almost every weekend and he said he will continue to leed this kind of lifestyle while on...
so my delema is, should I take his gear away so he doesn't hurt himself or let him do his thing....?

Thanks for your help

 

[Mr P]

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I think you should step up like the big brother you are and take away the gear, before he kills himself, his age/drinking doing drugs + the gear only spells disaster !

He should wait until his like 23 to think about doing gear, reason is believe it or not he's still growing, he doesn't need AAS, his own test is trough the roof at this age.

Please help your brother & take his gear, he will apriciate it when his older.

 

[Jusselin]

^^^ great advice, a lot of times people like him/me only learn the hard way though...he would probably just get more and go behind your back....problem is in his case learning the hard way might mean death...taking his shit away every time he gets it might make him hate you at the moment but it might be the best thing for him too.

GL

 

[Douce]

Thanks for your reply man, I agree and will be taking his gear...

Cheers, much appreciated!

 

[pickle bunny]

I respect any big brother that makes the tough decisions to protect his younger one.
Take away his stuff. Keep him from hurting himself any more. Or the things that will hurt him that he does not know about!

Go out with him on a weekend to show him a better way before he gets killed or kills someone in a DUI.

Its people like you that make a difference!

 

[cjw2021]

Take all his drugs and get him help fast.

 

[nerdalert]

tough love is the answer in cases like this, he will thank you down the road.

 

[mich29]

I agree with the others he might hate you now but down the road he'll love and respect you for it.

 

[Repo]

Wow I've been where you are - it's been many years now and my biggest worry with my younger brother is still the drugs.

It hasn't been the gear that has screwed up my brothers life - it all started with exctasy - I've given him a whole lot of tuff love over the years but I have never turned my back on him when most others have.

E is a killer man - I'm 10 years older than my brother - I've given him our moms house when she passed away - and he lost it - amongst many many many other things - including my last car.

E and other drugs can put on a sober face but they can not stay transparent for very long before behavior patterns start to leave signs.

One night I received a phone call that he was dead and within 30 minute was handed another phone that he was on...

In most cases well never receive that second phone call so what ever you do don't give up or let the two of you become disconnected from each other.

You need to sometimes put on the hat of a parent - a brother - and a friend.

No matter what always be there - and that means tuff love too.

 

[cjw2021]

Yeah just taking away a drug addicts' drugs is not enough. They need to be detoxed and isolated from their past.

 

[cyto33]

is it tuff love to take the stuff away that he will just be able to get his hands on again?

this is the stupid stuff kids do.
sounds like a retard to me that needs a shit kicking into the real world. or he needs a tradgity in the family to see what he has to make him open his eyes.
not that i wish this on anyone.
some kids just dont wake up.
i dont know what you should do. family is a hard one.

 

[cjw2021]

Yeah I mean this dude obviously has no responsibilities if he is partying his ass off all the time. Just kick him out of the house and watch him wise up.

 

[pickle bunny]

Yeah I mean this dude obviously has no responsibilities if he is partying his ass off all the time. Just kick him out of the house and watch him wise up.

Thats not going top help.
He needs love, supervision, template, role model, coaching.
Cant learn that stuff on the street.
The street teaches you street.

 

[Zero V]

tough love is the answer in cases like this, he will thank you down the road.

Indeed.

Even if it comes down to it trash his gear(smash it) even if it pisses him off...whats he gona do? His options are limited lol.

Later he will thank you. I also hope he wises up and hops off the other drugs, our bodies can only handle so much. Hell I treat mine pretty good and I still have alot of issues.