Girl wants to be a sex friend...

[Phatbastard]

If you want to lose her as a friend, go for it. If you want to keep her as a friend - and that includes her bring friends with your future gf/wifey, then don't do it. No matter what they say, once you cross that line, you can NEVER go back, especially if you are honest with your future gf/wifey.

I agree with this with exceptions. There are some people that are very comfortable with this.

I have had many friends like this. Most of them can not handle it to be honest. There are a few that can, For those it's no different than going to the store to get milk. I find these types more fun. We actually talk with out worry of hurting ones feelings ect!

It's great thing with the right person. But you get 1 wrong person and Whoh fuck

 

[Smilee21]

In all honesty, it can work, you and her will just need to set down the ground rules first, I have had A Fb, and we knew what the terms of our agreement was. We Saw eachother on certain occasions and that's it. We did not go out to dinner or movies or anything of that nature.
It was just a phone call and a romp in the sack and we would go our separate ways.

Sometimes you just need a certain person to help release with lol

 

[Smilee21]

I agree with this with exceptions. There are some people that are very comfortable with this.

I have had many friends like this. Most of them can not handle it to be honest. There are a few that can, For those it's no different than going to the store to get milk. I find these types more fun. We actually talk with out worry of hurting ones feelings ect!

It's great thing with the right person. But you get 1 wrong person and Whoh fuck

Very true... Not all ppl are wired to be A FB.

 

[Phatbastard]

Thank god for small favors I got lucky i guess LOL

 

[Georgia]

I am not wired to be a FB

 

[Smilee21]

I am not wired to be a FB

Not everyone is... I never know how things will turn out, I go with the flow and let things happen like they are suppose to be.

 

[stevenmd]

I am not wired to be a FB

Same here. I enjoy the emotion that comes along with sex. It just makes it that much better. Call my crazy but I'm wired the way I'm wired. Tried the FB thing a few times but it just wasn't intense enough for me. Why settle for great sex when I can have super intense great sex?

 

[Phatbastard]

I am not wired to be a FB

Im sorry Might as well give up your cycle thoughts also then lol!

 

[Smilee21]

Same here. I enjoy the emotion that comes along with sex. It just makes it that much better. Call my crazy but I'm wired the way I'm wired. Tried the FB thing a few times but it just wasn't intense enough for me. Why settle for great sex when I can have super intense great sex?

I much rather have Super Intense Great Sex, I wanna feel that raw emotionally electrical energy between 2 ppl when they give themselves completely to one another. It just hasn't happened for me yet. I haven't been with someone that ignited that flame inside me.

 

[tnemo]

Here is my Take when in a relationship we tend to get comfortable and content so the sex is just that, it is just ok, we forget to communicate and get inhibited to explore. when we are FB's we know that that is what it is we tend to communicate and explore more and the sex is probably 10 times better and never boring probably due to the fact you are less inhibited and you know your there for one reason.

 

[Georgia]

I like having sex with someone I care about way more. We're closer and more comfortable with each other and willing to go more intensely at it. I'm talking about hardcore, pornstar love making.

Im sorry Might as well give up your cycle thoughts also then lol!

lol.

 

[budthespud]

WEll, if you don't step up, then she'll probably find someone who will. What man wouldn't pass up non-commited sex.....???? C'mon bro, I'm 40 and I can only wish about having ALL my opportunuities back !!

 

[Zero V]

Issue resolved, after all the drama she went back to her boyfriend she broke up with XD

So made it easy for me, no more dilemma I can feel normal and not as depraved now. lol

 

[stevenmd]

I'm talking about hardcore, pornstar love making.

Exactly! Do it like a pornstar and ruin her for anyone after you. That's my philosophy.

 

[Smilee21]

Exactly! Do it like a pornstar and ruin her for anyone after you. That's my philosophy.

That's how it should be

 

[Smilee21]

I like having sex with someone I care about way more. We're closer and more comfortable with each other and willing to go more intensely at it. I'm talking about hardcore, pornstar love making.



lol.

Like your way of thinking... Georgia

 

[dialtone]

It can be done. I've done it

 

[Georgia]

Well good to see it worked out for ya.

Thank ya Smilee!

 

[Smilee21]

Ok... I am having a big problem with a few of my guy friends that I have known since I was a little girl. All of the sudden they are trying to come back into my life, that is fine and dandy, they were really good friends of mine. (I am a Tomboy, always have been).

The problem is they have always been attracted to me and have always let it be known that they wanted to be more than friends. I do not want to cross the line with them and take it passed Friendship.

One of my friends keeps asking me to go to these Swingers clubs with him, I keep saying the same thing, I am not about to have sex with random strangers. I am just not that way.

He keeps wanting to take it somewhere I don't want to go. I do not want to be a B****; but it is starting to really upset me that he is not respecting the fact I only want to be friends with him and nothing more.

I am going to end up walking away from this friendship due to the fact that He wants to be my F*** Buddy. I even told him I am celibate... lol that didn't work. He still thinks that he will get into my pants.

Ugh... I don't know what to do anymore. I don't want just Sex, if I cannot be with in a real relationship with someone. I don't want anything...from them at all. I don't want to F*** my friends.


I contacted him and told him I only want to be friends with you. So please stop with all the Sex Things. He replied with K.

I really hope he does. :/

 

[Sassytassie84]

Be a good friend, give the girl what she wants

lmao!

haha... Is this a real post!?