Guys who live with gf, wife, etc

NastyNate500 said:
My wife is alright with it. I've explained to her very clearly that I'm not walking into this blindly. If she has any questions about what I'm doing, she's more than welcome to ask.
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I'm in the same boat as you Nate, my wife knows that I won't do it without proper research.
 
Thanks for all the insight guys! So heres the deal. Ive been with her for about 2.5 years now we have a 11 month old little boy. We split up for about 4 months after he was born, we pretty much hated eachother, she didnt put out for almost a fucking year so I went and stuck my dick in some one else (once that she knows of) but it was more like 5 times. But whatever, I didnt like her and vise versa, so anyways we split up, losing my son was really rough for me, and I did love this chick alot, so it was incredibly difficult, and this is actually when I first started lifting and working out as it was an awesome constructive stress reliever. So I me working out all the time isnt what she's always known from me, but since we got back together I told her going to the gym, fitness, and diet is very important to me now, and she will not come in the way of that. When we got back together I was doing an oral cycle of 5decaZol, and epi-cynodrol, she doesnt and didnt know much about all the stuff, she just assumes its all really bad for you and I shouldnt be doing it. She thinks with as hard as I work in the gym I dont need sups. Anyways, I dont do much now, just some n.o., pre work out, protein, and bcaa's.

I have already thought most of this out, I am thinking of buying a small lock box, and just stashing it somewhere in our apt, I would like to pin first thing in the morning, but that would require me stashing the box in the bathroom which is a no go, so I am thinking possibly pinning later afternoon when I am home alone. We just have a small 2 bedroom apt, so I am thinking I am going to stash the lock box like back behind the washing machine, or deep back in my closet somewhere she wont snoop. But I will have to dig it out twice a week, Anyways, another thing to add is we are not like dirt broke or anything, I have an 18k$ car, hers is 10k$ we live decent, but still have to watch our budgets, I peice my cycle together for around $240, if I even show up with a new bottle of supplements she questions me, so the money I spent on this I am sure I would hear about that aspect too.

I am thinking I am just going to tell her I upped my diet to 4,000 calories or whatever and started some new lifting routines (she is pretty clueless to this stuff, which sucks, I wish she was more into it, but whatever)

So basically, I could tell her, but she would still lose her shit, and yea it would be in the open but it would cause some serious drama that we dont need because our relationship is a struggle enough on its own. lol I would have to deal with her bitching about the money aspect of it, and then her not understanding the health aspect of it.
So IMO its just easier to be secretive, and not tell her.

We both have a pretty firm grip on the control of the relationship we deff pick and choose our battles, she knows not to say shit if/when/ or what time or how long I am at the gym as that is something incredibly imortant to me, and in return I dont complain when she wants to go watch a movie with her mom on friday night (where she's at now) lol

Sorry for the long post but hopefully that gives you gents some insight! lol
I really wish she were cool and understanding but oh well.
I am going to do what I want to do. but I am also not going to start a shit storm if I dont have to, lol.
 
well if she finds out tell her your buddy had alot of extra gear and gave yoiu some at least that clears the money part , i understand your pain though I used to be a hardcore partier drinking , smoking , snorting you name it titty bars etc etc when i met my girl i changed all that we have a 1 year old and a 2 year old i have been clean and sober for many years now and lifting has been my new addiction , so i always remind her i could have worse habits,,then she thinks back and says ya go ahead and get a couple extra vials
 
Honestly, being in a relationship with someone and lying about something that you know will piss them off is bad news. I know you've worked hard to put the relationship back together, but you're a grown ass man. I don't see a problem with it as long as you're being responsible about the situation.
 
fo sho she might get pissed and it would spark a good fight but if she finds out later that you been hiding it this whole time that may be a fight you wont be able to recover from, she happens to find a vial or something shes going to lose it
 
That is a very good point, and I do agree with you guys. its not like I enjoy lying to her. If she were reasonable about shit I would always tell her the truth, but she tends to freak the fuck out about everything, and always jumps to conclutions with out knowing details so I just dont tell her things. I mean I dont feel like I am lying to her face, if she asks me. "Matt, are you injecting roids bro?" (she doesnt talk like that, but wouldnt it be fun?) And I said "No hunny, roids? What are those? I gained 20lbs in 4 weeks cause I have been eating my spinache!" I see that as lying, BUT if she doesnt ask anything about it, and the subject/topic never comes up then I would rather just leave it alone.
Now if I am pinning in the bathroom and she's knocking on the door wondering what I am doing, and I tell her I am just dropping a D. That is lying. But if its just something that never has to come into our relationship, then I see no harm in just not openly telling her what I am going to be doing. This is why I want to pin when she is not around, and keep my shit locked up and away.

Its not the best relationship, but we have a great little boy, and for me to be around him I can deal with her craziness, (she's not all bad guys, she puts out alot now, and lets me goto the gym whenever I want, what else do you need right??)
But like said before, 3 years ago there wasnt a weekend night when I wasnt snorting something or popping a couple of E tabs and partying my balls off. I met her and gave all of that up (she knows thats who I used to be, and knows thats not me anymore)

anyways. thanks again for the insight guys, I am glad this is such a good topic.
 
Well, I wish you the best of luck with it. A typical cycle is 12 weeks of pinning (plus another 10 days straight of HCG if you go that route). She's bound to notice something or ask something in that time.
 
Im doing 10 weeks of test e at 500mg m/t so 2 pins a week, no hcg, but aromasin, on cycle ed @ 12.5mg, and then clomid and nolva for post cycle therapy (pct) 2weeks after last pin.
Like I said in my first post, the orals are whatever, thats not concern. its the ordeal of pinning, which will only be twice a week, when she's not home. I highly doubt she'll notice anything unless I am an idiot about it. which I don't believe I am. lol
 
One last thing to consider its not only hiding the pinning of even the gains but the sides as well. Like a dumbass I chose to to run tren over the hottest summer we have had in a while, I just got off cycle, but I couldn't go anywhere or do anything without literally sweating my fucking balls off,, if she didn't know she would have probably been freaking out thinking I was on some drug, plus I. Don't get acne never really had that problem, my back looked like I had the chicken pox, my girl is hot and ya im normally pretty horny but I was running 700mg of test a week I couldn't stop I wanted Somme ass 3 or 4 times a day, I would wake up some nights drenched in sweat, because she knew why this was all happening she scrubbed my back in the shower all the time, she put the fan in front of me at night if I was sweating, she gave up as much ass as her pussy could take and then would blow me or jerk me off so I wouldn't go somewhere else to get it,,it would have been near impossible to hide all that
 
Well yours and my relationship with our girls sound like twinners but when we got back together I said the gym is VERY important to me and I am going to be giving roids a try. I said I am not asking you to condon it just understand its what I want to do and I am being safe and educated about it. Took her a few weeks but she acually loves my size, strength, and cuts an she gives me my injections twice a week. I honestly think it brought us closer it shows I trust her enough to tell her. Good luck
 
I have a don't ask, don't tell agreement with my GF. It came up the first night we got together so I had to give in and tell all.. She's smart and had a pretty good idea I wasn't normal.... :)

I can see it in her eyes sometimes that she's worried about me. That's why I'm cutting down to a weight that I can manage without steroids. She wants me to stop and I'm going to do it for her. It's an easy pick if it comes down to it....

I know she's been looking through my kit. I often find things on top that should be on the bottom. Girls will be girls.. If you think you can hide something away in a box, you can bet that she will find it.. Lock or no lock it's going to bring up conversation.

I was looking up some information on Sustanon once and found 2 pages that were already veiwed and they wern't viewed by me... hehe So I know she's been looking at what I have and she knows what it does... Clever girl. Of course they all are and it's pretty hard to hide it from them.

Try to explain acne break outs and she starts aking you to go see the doctor. I can imagine what would happen if she found a lump in your chest.. She'll be dragging you off the to hospital to get checked for cancer... It all comes out in the end no matter how good your plan is....

Good luck with hiding your gear boys...
 
KaiserSose said:
One last thing to consider its not only hiding the pinning of even the gains but the sides as well. Like a dumbass I chose to to run tren over the hottest summer we have had in a while, I just got off cycle, but I couldn't go anywhere or do anything without literally sweating my fucking balls off,, if she didn't know she would have probably been freaking out thinking I was on some drug, plus I. Don't get acne never really had that problem, my back looked like I had the chicken pox, my girl is hot and ya im normally pretty horny but I was running 700mg of test a week I couldn't stop I wanted Somme ass 3 or 4 times a day, I would wake up some nights drenched in sweat, because she knew why this was all happening she scrubbed my back in the shower all the time, she put the fan in front of me at night if I was sweating, she gave up as much ass as her pussy could take and then would blow me or jerk me off so I wouldn't go somewhere else to get it,,it would have been near impossible to hide all that
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LMAO ! ... I love your girlfriend stories bro. I try not to pound my girl too much but I hear ya buddy :)

She's in the shower right now... Haven't done it there is a week. Be back in an hour... lol
 
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LMAO ! ... I love your girlfriend stories bro. I try not to pound my girl too much but I hear ya buddy :)

She's in the shower right now... Haven't done it there is a week. Be back in an hour... lol
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Dammit YES werent you suppose to be gone by now geez you snooze u lose lol
 
Dude. If she would get pissed about you spending $240 on gear what is she gonna say when you start spending a shit load of extra money per week at the grocery store for the massive amounts of food you are gonna need in order to make the gear worth while. Eating while on a cycle isn't cheap!
 
cjz0220 said:
Kick the door in and take her the cave man way LOL
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Too late bro... She's already out and dressed for bed. She was in there doing "Lady Things".. Shaving and shit. She better not have shaved it to pretty or I will turn into Kaiser... lol

Someone gave us the Game Of Thrones. It's a pretty awsome TV show. I guess we'll be watching that for the next 3 hours so my chances are going to be slim tonight... :(

I'll be ready to hit it in the morning unless she gets up eirly to avoid me.
 
this is why every man needs an office. weve got a 3 bdrm place and i set my office up in there i have complete privacy if i need to i just go in there and lock the door and when im gone during the day i leave it unlocked so it looks like i have nothing to hide. i told her we needed to get a fireproof safe for important papers and stuff,etc. and she was like your right thats a good idea. ive even got a seperate lock box in there just in case she ever want to put somethin in there she wont see my goodies lol if she askes what that box is for ill just tell her my pistola lol the reason why i dont want to tell her about it is because if we break up i dont want her tellin everybody about what im doin ya know what i mean !
 
LOL mine does the same to me sometimes LOL dam women dont they know theres a reason we hang round an deal with the constant emotional rollerscoaster LOL
 
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