Its interesting you say this. Eluding to my post above about my daughter and the discipline that has transferred from the Martial Arts to her every day life. She went through a very traumatic experience this past year. Went through it all, group counseling, one on one therapy, school shrink, you name it. Taekwondo (btw she informed me this afternoon i was spelling it wrong in a facebook message I was writing to my Mom, lol) has done more for her as far as an outlet for expression, an outlet for aggression, a healthy discipline and self esteem, than any of the aforementioned things have by far. Best $35/month investment I have ever made for my child, Id pay 3x that if the price went up tomorrow.
man, thats awesome..
and as good as training is for a young person - that child has to have character to begin with, or it just doesn't work
muay thai boxing saved my life.
angry young man, felt like everything in my life was out of my control, beyond repair..
the gym was the one place, boxing was the one thing - it was all me and nobody could take that away
it was something i had control over.
the successes i had, the pride and self confidence i got from it.. walked out with on my shoulders with me into the real world when i left the gym. i was worthwhile, if only because i could box - i had something i was good at..
carried me through some really really dark times
it gave me a sense of self worth.. it gave me something to look forward to
the simple fundamental lessons i mentioned carry over into everyday life, but the deeper you go into training..
you realize the gym / dojo is this microcosm of the outside world
ill tell you jimi.. i train a bunch of young guys. 14 yrs old to around 27-28
i love my kids, all of them, like they are my own.
id lay down in traffic for anyone of them , and they would do the same for me, for each other..
some of them, its the only real family they have ever had. I've watched a young man who's family abandoned him, literally moved to another state - and my kid STILL gradutated high school while being HOMELESS
he's worked his way up the ladder in real estate and making good money , has a god girl..
hes going to make it, he's going to be fine.
i give a fuck about these kids.
and sometimes thats all somebody needs, to have someone they look up to that gives a shit about them
- makes them realize, that yes - if this guy gives a damn abut me, then i must matter.
i don't know how old your little girl is , but ill make a prediction...
sh sticks with this, and one day
she'll be teaching at the dojo
the day will come where she'll share exactly what she got from her art that she needed , with others..
watch..