Nope, it wasn't meant in a sarcastic way,
u emphasized a few points quite a few times, so I just posted my .2 cents.
This is an open forum, so everyone's points of view are welcome
Ofcourse you have to keep things fresh, I agree, whatever works for each couple.
I never said couples shouldn't do whatever it takes to keep each other happy..
it's really all about compromise like every other aspect in the relationship,
it's more about compatibility than anything else IMO, some couples do fine with less sex, others want it more, the problem is when they are not in the same page.
There's a lot more than sexual favors to keep a relationship going, Sex isn't all there is to a great relationship, sure it's an important part.
There are far more things that bond a couple, besides sex.
IMO, It's those relationships that are heavily based on sex that usually don't wind up making it for very long. That's because that while sex is an important part of a relationship, in the end it's how you navigate the bad times that really define how strong your relationship is.
Too many people are willing to bail when bad times happen because it's easy to fix with a legal procedure and piece of paper, and sex is readily available elsewhere.
In fact, over time if your relationship is based heavily on sex, the boredom factor alone tends to lead people to cheat or split up, because they have no other solid foundation.
I've been happily married for 15 years and neither have any complaints in that department.