Okay, I just read this thread and I am totally disappointed I didn't do it sooner!
First, I've been married for 10 years and I am as committed to my wife and marriage as I am my diet and training.
I have always been very reserved especially around good-looking women because I use to feel like I didn't have that dynamic, out-going, flashy personality. I'm an intellectual and I think before I speak and act so I often listen more than I talk.
When I was single, I really struggled with dating. I'm not one to hang out in bars and clubs and I've never taken a girl home from a place like that in my life. It is not a religious or moral thing, it's just not in my character.
I have always felt like a girl really needs to get to know me to see the value in me as "boyfriend" material.
I've always been told that I am a "good looking" guy. Now that my hair is short again, I am told that I look like a younger Daniel Craig because I have the blond hair and bright blue eyes.
The really funny thing (ironic?) is that ever since I married, I have girls hit on me all the time. They are bold about it too and they know I am married. I make that known to everyone.
That kind of attention never ever came my way when I was younger!
Nothing has changed, same manners, physique, and what not.
Now, I will tell you that to me, there is nothing more attractive than a women that will let a man know she finds him attractive.
For me, I am instantly interested in you if you are interested in me. I guess we are all different in that but ladies, if you see a guy you like, show your interest in a direct and unmistakable way.
