recently came clean to the wife about the gear

[beatngyou27]

so im tired of hiding my gear and having to lie ti my fiance. i figured if she loves me she'll stay with me even if she doesnt agree with it. well i came clean and told her everything and to my surprise she says she doesn't like it but she knows if im gonna do it i will. so she excepts it. well im trying to comfort her in telling her there is very little risk's but im not that well knowledgable of everything to set her mind completely at ease.

so if you gentlemen or ladies can give me some pointers on how to explain gear and how its not so evil ways, that would be great.

 

[UserAt204]

Rent the movie bigger stronger faster or whatever it's called. Watch it your self first.

 

[thetruepitbull]

If you have been using for quite sometime and have been in a positive relationship with her throughout that duration, then she should handle it better.

You just need her to be comfortable and feel safe around you.

Health is another issue. There are health risks involved, which you should be honest about. You can just minimize them and be optimistic; the glass is half full.

Also, babies and starting a family might be a concern for her. Just tell her it's on your priority list too.

 

[thetruepitbull]

Do not rent the movie The Man's Whose Arms Exploded.

 

[Storm827]

Do not rent the movie The Man's Whose Arms Exploded.

Haha. This is true! But that is definitely steroid abuse at it's best. Bigger stronger faster is what won me over about steroids ultimately. Each movie has great points.

On another note, how come you cannot fully put her at ease about it? IMO you should know everything about what you are taking and how your body might react from it, before you take it. I've done about a year and half or more of study/research and I'm still doing more before my first aas cycle. But I'm sooo close to starting. Just dialing in dieting, don't wanna waste my time

 

[Cobra Strike]

Rent the movie bigger stronger faster or whatever it's called. Watch it your self first.

nuff said

 

[Liquid 2010]

I'd say don't do it. You just never know, bro! And it might come back to bite you. I've read many threads of that happening and going wrong.

I don't know... I'd rethink it.

 

[Mudge]

Rent the movie bigger stronger faster or whatever it's called. Watch it your self first.

Start here, my wife saw it with me before we got married (in the theater). Look at both sides of the coin and be honest about the risks/rewards.

 

[OmegaReign]

Yeah, my wife watched it a while ago. I told her I plan on taking them, was totally cool with it. My ordershould be in soon. Shell be pinning the glutes for me.

 

[cyto33]

myt girl watched it in CUBA we sat and watched it and she said everything you ever told be about it is true to this movie.
about a month later she was trying her first go on VAR.

 

[Juicer2222]

bigger faster stronger

Start here, my wife saw it with me before we got married (in the theater). Look at both sides of the coin and be honest about the risks/rewards.

x2

i showed that movie to my girl. she liked it. she didnt mind the juice at all, she was just pissed i hid it from her.

 

[beatngyou27]

x2

i showed that movie to my girl. she liked it. she didnt mind the juice at all, she was just pissed i hid it from her.

yea I had avoided that but telling the partial truth lol. i just said ive done it in the past and plan to in the future. i just didnt bring up the fact im on pct and just got off my last pin.

I'll check out that movie asap

 

[Rollergirl]

I told my husband I was thinking about Var. He flipped a little. So probably won't be telling him if I actually do it.

 

[beatngyou27]

I told my husband I was thinking about Var. He flipped a little. So probably won't be telling him if I actually do it.

that really sucks. I showed my girl that movie and it really helped alot unfortunately it might not help you cuz the girls they did show were very masculin very muscular which im sure he is afraid of. but its deff a good movie . maybe try watching it youself alone first then see if it will suit your position

 

[Rollergirl]

Idk...he doesn't understand that I even go to the gym period. Stupid. Does he want a fat flabby wife or what? I do this for myself only.

 

[Mudge]

Strange that the situation is reversed, although some guys totally aren't into the culture. I hope for your sake he doesn't turn into a fatty, while you're all in shape!

 

[Repo]

Your best to just tell her - for the relation to work - you need to be able to do what you feel is right if you want to be "happily" married.

I decided to tell my wife - and oh boy - she shot me DOWN!

But I said - no - I'm going to do this - I know what's right for my body - so I'm going to do this - and she excepted my decision.

We have an awesome marriage - we're best friends and never argue or fight ... "not at all."

You see - you're going to marry your partner - not your parent - that simply doesn't work - not if you want to really be happy.

A couple things that did help was the "is it low T" commercial - I also seen a doctor on a news channel who said people with higher levels of test are healthier and live longer.

Also -my doctor check my test levels which came back very high - a natural 726 (good and bad) - now he wouldn't prescribe test (shit) - I didn't except that which is how I found this wonderful site and took things into my own hands ... but the fact that a doctor would prescribe test "might" have helped.

By the way - the day after she shot me down - she fully supported my decision ... "now she thinks it's very SEXY!"

Good luck - I don't hide anything ... "you can do it too!"

 

[BigBlackguy]

Rent the movie bigger stronger faster or whatever it's called. Watch it your self first.

This helped with my GF. A lot!

 

[Juicer2222]

Idk...he doesn't understand that I even go to the gym period. Stupid. Does he want a fat flabby wife or what? I do this for myself only.

Ha that is interesting. I don't think thats very common that the female is more into fitness than the guy, especially by a lot. It sounds like he doesn't even work out at all? That would definately be a weird conversation if he isn't even into the fitness community and his girl is talking about juicin.

 

[Mrs P]

Idk...he doesn't understand that I even go to the gym period. Stupid. Does he want a fat flabby wife or what? I do this for myself only.

Wow ! Does he tell you why he doesn't think you should go to the gym ?
After all the benefits you get from working out and being fit, not only benefit you, but it benefits your relationship too, a happier, more confident wife means a happier husband.

I mean what husband doesn't like having a wife that's fit ?

Keep doing what your doing, after all you have to be happy with yourself in order to be able to make other's happy.