Sassytassie84
Denial is not a river!
Med-Big build with flat stomach (ripped would be awesome, but not everyone is Cashout, haha)
Fuck bein big when you have no muscle definition and just look fat.
If I was faced with a choice though, I'd take a large muscular build (with moderate body fat) over a 6 pack.
yea if i was 10-15 years younger i would like abs to,but hell im 45,nearly 46......to late for me though,wont happen
you guys that are in your 40s on ology I respect u the most.
So as a Big guy who misses the the smaller days. I say smaller lean and hard. THe Girls love a guy with abs. Being big scares a lot of women.
Right, but next to a guy like glubgawd you'd look like a little bitch. I say you can't have your cake and eat it too.
Sometimes I bulk, sometimes I cut. most years I do both. when I bulk I'm heavier and less defined. When I cut, all my bulking work shows.
If you aim to stay ripped all the time, you are missing out on the best part of your physique. The muscle.
I don't do this for 'chicks' ...I do it to be the most awesome human I can be.
Ultimately if I was faced with a choice though, I'd take a large muscular build (with moderate body fat) over a 6 pack. If we're talking a large muscular build with a slobby gut, I'll take the abs.
My dad said it best. He's still a big strong fella even at 60+. He said when I work out...work out with the mindset that "Hey, I want to get big and strong enough to defend my family and hurt anyone who tries to hurt them"
That got him a big ol' upperbody with 18" arms.
For me, its always about being lean and ripped. shredded and vascular catches a lot more attention in my experience than being 30-40 lbs heavier. You would be bulkier for sure, but sloppy and not defined. Meatheads are a dime a dozen. The guy that looks like he has his shit together is the one that is ripped and carrying a respectable amount of muscle mass.
Remember, a skinny dood with abs is like a fat chick with tits... It don't count!
Med-Big build with flat stomach (ripped would be awesome, but not everyone is Cashout, haha)